Most people accept any and everything that walks into our lives. We have not been shown, neither have we been taught what love truly is. Families are dysfunctional for 1 reason: " because they are not built on real LOVE." Love is the foundation of all things. Without love: we don't know who we are, we don't express it, we aren't motivated, we aren't inspired, we aren't encourage, we don't have ambition, and we fall into traps.
Families are built upon generations of failures to express sincere love. There are hidden agendas that keeps us from helping our loved ones excel to their fullest potential. We secretly wish for their failure so we ourselves can feel better about not amounting to something better than we currently are. Why do we selfishly and jealously envy others for being successful, when we have the same opportunities as the next person. Why are their grown men and women today looking for hand-outs and charity?...Because no one encouraged them, no one told them they can have something, because no one invested in their lives.
People often tell people with these kinds of hidden emotions to just get over it, move on, and grow up. While all of these things are true, the fact still remain that these people still have voids in their hearts and needs answers. No matter how old you are, you still need love and compassion.
Problems that began from childhood definitely migrates to adulthood. Your humanism is going to always desire connection, compassion, love, and empathy. Adults yearn for answers and closure. Closure comes from knowing and recognizing what cause the problem in the first place.
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